{"id":7250,"date":"2019-08-28T05:21:56","date_gmt":"2019-08-27T17:21:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/spence-chapin.org\/blog-category-sharing-difficult-or-sensitive-information-with-your-adopted-teen\/"},"modified":"2020-01-07T08:30:50","modified_gmt":"2020-01-06T20:30:50","slug":"compartir-informacion-dificil-o-sensible-con-su-adolescente-adoptado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/spencestaging.berrycreativellc.com\/es\/sharing-difficult-or-sensitive-information-with-your-adopted-teen\/","title":{"rendered":"Compartir informaci\u00f3n dif\u00edcil o confidencial con su adolescente adoptado"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space: pre-wrap;\">Muchos padres levantan el tel\u00e9fono y llaman para <a href=\"https:\/\/spencestaging.berrycreativellc.com\/es\/entrenamiento\/\">servicios de entrenamiento<\/a> cuando se dan cuenta de que es hora de contarle a su hijo una parte de su historia de adopci\u00f3n que han estado guardando. Quiz\u00e1s tenga fotograf\u00edas que no haya mostrado, conozca a un hermano biol\u00f3gico o haya circunstancias relacionadas con la concepci\u00f3n o la renuncia de su hijo que a\u00fan no haya compartido. La mejor pr\u00e1ctica es que los adoptados conozcan su historia completa antes de pasar a la adolescencia. Hay excepciones a esto, pero en general se trata de una pauta s\u00f3lida y tambi\u00e9n hemos descubierto que incluso los padres que preferir\u00edan esperar m\u00e1s tiempo tienden a sentirse inc\u00f3modos reteniendo informaci\u00f3n a medida que su hijo avanza hacia la adolescencia. Un error comprensible, pero com\u00fan, es esperar que haya un \u201cpunto \u00f3ptimo\u201d o el momento perfecto para compartir informaci\u00f3n de manera que no resulte doloroso. Quiz\u00e1s sea demasiado pedir, pero definitivamente hay algunas cosas que usted puede hacer para ayudar a que la conversaci\u00f3n sea m\u00e1s c\u00f3moda para usted y su hijo.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space: pre-wrap;\"><strong>A continuaci\u00f3n se ofrecen algunos consejos que le ayudar\u00e1n a usted y a su familia a medida que avanza hacia el intercambio de informaci\u00f3n m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil.<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul data-rte-list=\"default\">\n<li>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space: pre-wrap;\"><strong>Revisa tu informaci\u00f3n. <\/strong>Una de las cosas m\u00e1s \u00fatiles que puede hacer es retroceder en el tiempo y reunir toda la informaci\u00f3n que tiene sobre la adopci\u00f3n de su hijo, desde las notas escritas a mano que haya tomado hasta los documentos de su agencia, abogado o representante del supervisor. . Cualquier foto, video y correspondencia con cualquier persona relacionada con su proceso de adopci\u00f3n desde el principio hasta el presente. Hay dos razones principales por las que se pide a los padres que hagan esto. La primera es para que usted, como padre, pueda hacer un inventario claro de lo que sabe sobre la adopci\u00f3n de su hijo. La mayor\u00eda de los recuerdos de los padres sobre el proceso de adopci\u00f3n est\u00e1n llenos de lagunas o su recuerdo de lo sucedido es diferente al de su pareja. La segunda raz\u00f3n es que al examinar estos elementos, es probable que usted se sienta inundado de recuerdos y se sienta emocionado; les pedimos a los padres que hagan este ejercicio como una tarea importante para familiarizarse con lo que les surge y abordarlo para que puedan Puede sentirse m\u00e1s c\u00f3modo compartiendo esta informaci\u00f3n dif\u00edcil.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space: pre-wrap;\"><strong>Anota todos los hechos.<\/strong> Escribe lo que crees que le has contado a tu hijo en una p\u00e1gina y lo que te queda por compartir en la otra. Escriba su historia de una manera que crea que puedan absorber. Tus hijos te esperan en busca de la verdad. Cuanto m\u00e1s en control y preparado est\u00e9 usted, m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil ser\u00e1 para su hijo adolescente asimilar la informaci\u00f3n y procesarla en sus propios t\u00e9rminos. Esta es una de las \u00e1reas donde un <a href=\"https:\/\/spencestaging.berrycreativellc.com\/es\/entrenamiento\/\">entrenador<\/a> puede ayudarle a formular y articular la informaci\u00f3n y su intenci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul data-rte-list=\"default\">\n<li>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space: pre-wrap;\"><strong>Considere el momento adecuado para su hijo. <\/strong>Es importante que sea usted quien le cuente a su hijo la verdad sobre su historia. Cuanto mayor sea su hijo, m\u00e1s probable ser\u00e1 que obtenga informaci\u00f3n sobre su adopci\u00f3n de otras fuentes: puede tropezar con la informaci\u00f3n en su computadora o archivador, escucharla de alguien en quien usted confi\u00f3, o <a href=\"https:\/\/spencestaging.berrycreativellc.com\/es\/blog\/padre-biologico\/preguntas-que-debe-hacerse-al-considerar-la-busqueda-de-padres-biologicos\/\">buscar informaci\u00f3n ellos mismos <\/a>en Internet o mediante el uso de las redes sociales. Entonces, s\u00ed, es importante que no espere demasiado para contarle a su hijo su historia completa. Pero con su nueva disposici\u00f3n, aseg\u00farese de considerar si tambi\u00e9n es un buen momento para su hijo. Piense en su salud mental general, su capacidad actual para comprender y procesar informaci\u00f3n, otras transiciones que est\u00e9 experimentando con amigos o en la escuela y cambios significativos en su vida hogare\u00f1a (separaci\u00f3n de los padres, enfermedad u otras p\u00e9rdidas).<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space: pre-wrap;\"><strong>Aborde su propia ansiedad y miedos. <\/strong>Abordar sus miedos y ansiedad de frente es un paso fundamental en la preparaci\u00f3n para compartir informaci\u00f3n dif\u00edcil con su hijo. A los padres les preocupa que esta nueva informaci\u00f3n vaya a causar angustia a sus hijos y, comprensiblemente, quieren protegerlos de este dolor y protegerse ellos mismos de presenciarlo. La preocupaci\u00f3n de los padres tiende a recaer en dos \u00e1reas principales. Su primera preocupaci\u00f3n es que el ni\u00f1o sienta m\u00e1s rechazo o verg\u00fcenza al tener esta nueva informaci\u00f3n. La segunda \u00e1rea de preocupaci\u00f3n es que esta informaci\u00f3n cambiar\u00e1 la relaci\u00f3n y crear\u00e1 distancia entre el padre y el ni\u00f1o. Esta es un \u00e1rea donde encuentro <a href=\"https:\/\/spencestaging.berrycreativellc.com\/es\/entrenamiento\/\">entrenamiento<\/a> puede ser m\u00e1s eficaz porque los padres necesitan un lugar donde expresar sus propios miedos y preocupaciones sin juzgarlos. A menudo <a href=\"https:\/\/spencestaging.berrycreativellc.com\/es\/entrenamiento\/\">entrenamiento<\/a> proporciona alivio a los padres, permiti\u00e9ndoles tener conversaciones dif\u00edciles con sus hijos sin sentirse abrumados por sus propios miedos. Su <a href=\"https:\/\/spencestaging.berrycreativellc.com\/es\/entrenamiento\/\">entrenador<\/a> puede ayudarle a desarrollar el lenguaje, determinar el momento oportuno y desarrollar su propia resiliencia para que se sienta m\u00e1s seguro en sus decisiones como padre.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space: pre-wrap;\">Spence-Chapin <a href=\"https:\/\/spencestaging.berrycreativellc.com\/es\/entrenamiento\/\">entrenamiento<\/a> y <a href=\"https:\/\/spencestaging.berrycreativellc.com\/es\/asesoramiento\/\">asesoramiento<\/a> Los servicios pueden ayudarlo mientras explora c\u00f3mo compartir informaci\u00f3n dif\u00edcil con su hijo adolescente. Cont\u00e1ctenos al 646-539-2167 o <a href=\"mailto:postadoption@spencestaging.berrycreativellc.com\">postadoption@spencestaging.berrycreativellc.com<\/a> para programar una consulta inicial.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Many parents pick up the phone and call for coaching services when they realize that it\u2019s time to tell their child a part of their adoption story that they have been holding. 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